i'm a young married woman, i got married right out of high school and well i'm sort of regretting ever getting married.. i knew my husband a good 3 years before we got engaged then we were engaged for a year, and now married for a year.. in this past year i have found out things that have just turned my outlook on him right around, he had 2 girlfriends while we were engaged, he lied to me about everything, even something so small as going to bed..  he's lied soo much about everything  and he has even been telling lies about me to his co workers.. he also has a very short temper and he has done several unforgivable things to me.. recently i told him i was leaving him and he said he was willing to change and  has done everything to make it up to me.. but i'm really at my wits end.. i'm not the kind of woman to hold grudges but seriously when it comes to him i can't even look at him without seeing every single lie, or abusive thing he's ever done..  not one of my friends will tell me the god honest truth if i'm stupid for giving him a second chance, i feel like i'm just wasting time..